Sunday, November 23, 2008

FR: Zero intent but fun - allowing the off night

There no descriptions of any interactions between me and any girls in this FR, the reason is that there were none last night. I went out by myself purely to have fun! I had a shitty week at work with lots of hours and shitty review conversations cause I have worked in a fucked up project situation for the last 8 months but that's a different story...
When I arrived at the club I felt really good but did not feel like approaching girls or even making any conversation with anybody. Now you probably think..AA and a bad night. But let me assure you that AA is under control for years already and the night was great. I was loving the music, dancing my heart out and having tons of fun by myself. I was even approached twice by girls but wasn't interested. Couple of girls were also close by wherever I hung out (read: danced). Point is that I had a great night with zero interactions and zero intent. Sure if my dream girl had walked in my super charged intent would have come up by itself leave my control to get wild and I had surely approached her, but all her different versions chose different clubs for the night. Again, I had a great night by myself without any friends or "game", or whatever you'd like to call it. A few months ago I probably would not have allowed that to happen, I would have approached no matter what and probably even had success in terms of makeout or lay. The point is that I felt much better this morning compared to the times when i approached no matter what. Probably this is the case because I truly didi what I felt like doing, which in this case was having fun by myself!
As a note, I don't plan to make this "no interaction night" a habit at all and especially newbies should not try to find any useful starting advice in the report above but if you're intermediate or advanced...think about it, ever felt like you had to game? And did it work or most importantly did it make you happy?
I will continue to do what I truly feel like doing in the moment and [B]NOT[/B] what I'm conditioned to think that I should be doing! Luckily most of the times when I go out I truly feel like meeting girls and taking them home!
Satisfaction

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